Glen and I got married, on New Years Eve 2009, I can’t think
of anything more romantic, or more fitting for that matter. We get to start a
New Year, symbolically in our marriage every year. You tend to start fresh
every New Year I think, and we get to do that with our marriage at the same
time… Sounds kinda, kooky, I know, but it’s, how I feel.
The way in which we got married, is incredibly special for
us, and a story I love to tell. I must be honest it always puts a smile on my
face, I am smiling now. We’d been planning to get married since 08, looking at
rings and possible wedding locations, Mexico,
Bahamas, Caribbean,
Vegas, the choices where endless and at the time financially not constrained, I
could have gotten married anywhere! Something inside me though didn’t sit
right, I wasn’t after something massive or outrageous, but I did want something
different – If it’s not in a registry office or a massive church wedding
everyone gets married on the beach or in Vegas (well everyone I know anyway) so
we started looking for an alternative. Glen found a website and sent me a link
and I loved what I saw – New York – We talked about Central Park if it was
summer and he Empire State building if it was winter, with our minds made up
over rings, location and my dress which my mother made, all we had to do was
wait, for the minor complication of my divorce to come through, which should
have be finalized in November 08. It took a year longer than expected and the
court date came through for my Ex’s birthday.. 03 November 2009…… In theory I
had been divorced since July 2008, everything was agreed (he got EVERYTHING),
any paperwork that needed signing had been signed I just needed a judge to date
stamp it. I had already moved to America to be with my husband, so I
had to fly back for the court date, I was in the court room less than 15
minutes! Some poetic justice, in the date though, I feel. A few days later I
returned to the States.
Christmas was
looming, and I was keeping myself busy with new recipes, ice hockey, Christmas
parties, the cinema and coffee dates with friends and my Aunt.
On the 29
th of December, Glen and I went down to
the town hall and filed for our marriage licence, once in the building, it took
longer to find the office than it did to get the licence. I had changed my mind
about where I wanted to get married and opted for the DC area, instead,
Virginia is where my
heart is and had been for 22 years since my very first visit, it feels like
home. I had contacted a Rev. Dan a few months before and he was prepared to do
the ceremony for us as soon as we were ready. As soon as we got home from the
town hall, I emailed him and said we wanted to get married as soon as possible,
he responded within the hour “How about Thursday, call me” Oh my, Monday we
were talking about getting a marriage licence, Tuesday we get it, Thursday
we’re getting married, talk about a whirl wind. Rev. Dan suggested his house
due to the weather and we had no venue. So at 1630 we turned up at his house
with a friend in accidental last minute tow, she drove me to his house. I got
married in a man’s house who I had never met, in
Springfield….. How cool is that?
That night we went to the Union Jack in Balston, with some
friends of ours. We went round to theirs for a few nibbles and drinks before we
went, and we arrived, to a bottle of champagne, a wedding cake, and I photo of
Glen and I, which, we love and always has pride of place in our home.
In the Union Jack we danced and drank, and ate….. Appetizers
were being served, including Vodka cream – Yum yum… My tipple of choice and I
tried to recreate the recipe this is what I came up with….
Vodka
Cream
1 tsp corn flour
1 Tbsp butter
250 ml cream
1/2 cup vodka
Salt and black pepper to taste
1. In a sauce pan over a low heat melt the butter, add the
corn flour, slowly add the cream, stirring constantly, bring to a boil, to
thicken.
2. Add the vodka and season to taste.